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thinkspiration Thursdays: Mom to the Rescue

It doesn't matter if we're toddlers or teens -- it's always mom to the rescue!

Like you, we’re inspired by great thinkers from the past and present. So we thought we’d share their insight with you, reflect on its meaning and hear what you have to say. We believe that when it comes to living a full, healthy, happy life, it’s all about how you “think.”

“[A] mother is one to whom you hurry when you are troubled.” - Emily Dickinson

The last few times I called my mother it was because I needed something. I think I can admit that. Despite our differences, when trouble arises – whether it’s a solution to an impending cooking catastrophe or advice on how to handle a break up – my mom is first on my list. I go to her even though I know I won’t like her answer. I know she’ll give me a brutally honest answer, one that I might have a hard time finding for myself or from my friends. She tells it like it is and always has my back – and I probably don’t thank her enough for that. So before you hang up your next emergency call with mom – remember to thank her. She’ll be happy to know you appreciate her advice – even when you don’t ask for it!

thinkThin®Thursday Contest: Tell us about your mother’s best unwelcome advice in the comments below to enter to win a box of your favorite bars and a thinkThin T-shirt. Good luck!

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Lauren Paradis
Your right, moms is ALWAYS the one I go to. No matter what. She is the one with all the advice and has no problem telling you how it is! A time I remember having a deep conversation with her in regards to needing advice was indeed about a past relationship. She told me how she felt and gave me completely honesty which was all I could ask for! If I didn't have her by my side I don't know what I would do! Thanks mom. xoxoxo Lauren
Dina
My Mom's most unwelcome advice is to make sure to keep my house clean and get my husband to donate some of his things since he's becoming a pack rat. I know I need to do those things, but it's hard hearing it from my mom. :)
Stacey Claassen
The best unwelcomed advice from my mom is always when I need reminding of the right thing to do. My mom always reminds me it isn't always just about me!
Victoria Morgan
My Momma told me that you better shop around.I did not want to hear it at the time,but now wish I had followed her advise.
Vickie Cleveland
My Mom told me on my wedding day, Honey, don't do anything for your husband now, that you don't want to do the rest of your life. She spoke from experience and has been married to my Dad for 53 years now, and I have been married to my husband for 28 years.
Shannon Lingle
My mom checked out emotionally and physically when I was young. That has taken me age and wisdom to overcome but now I devote my everything to my little girls. I've learned that every minute matters with them!
Vickie
My mother is good at telling me exactly what she thinks about things that are happening in my life. When I am in the wrong, my mother tells me, "You need to be more flexible. Don't be so stubborn". She keeps me humble. But she also has my back and will tell me, "No, you are right. Don't back down now."
Sarah
Yesterday my mom and I got in a tift over giving and receiving advise. I called her "asking for advise" on how/when to tell my boss that I am leaving. When I didn't agree with her advise I got defensive. She quickly reminded me that I ASKED her for advise and it was up to me to listen or take with a grain of salt. In the end, I reached a "middle ground" conclusion and had the conversation with my boss. Love you Mom!
Monica D
My Mom always told me to eat my vegetables. As a child, I did so reluctantly. Now, at 41, I love my veggies and enjoy a healthy lifestyle of exercise and a good diet. I think I look pretty good for my age! Thanks Mom!
Ranita B
My mom was in no way available when I was growing up so I rarely took advice from her but I do recall one time that I did and am now so greatful I listened to her. She told me I was settling with my fiancee out of fear of being unlovable. This was extremely painful for me to hear but I am so greatful I took her advice and stepped back to evaluate the relationship. I walked away from that relationship and several years later met the love of my life whom I married and have 3 babies with. Thank you Mom!!
Amy C.
Growing up my Mom always told me to save my allowance and not waste on things I didn't need. I desperately wanted to spend my money on things like lipgloss and candy and was mad at her for not letting me do this (as a 10 year old). Now as an adult I am so happy that she taught me to save and how to budget!
Aileen
To be honest, I can't think of any unwelcome advice from my mom. She is my best friend, & I love any advice that she gives me. She is there for me to talk with, rant about life events, cry with, & share in my joys. She is the best, & I hope when I am a mother, I will be just like her.
Jennifer C
My mom has always told me about the importance of having good female friends. Now that I am a mom myself, I know how important it is!
Meghan Smith
My Mom is one of the most frugal people you will ever meet which used to drive me crazy when I was younger but now that I am married and raising two children I totally understand! I will drive all the way home to get a coupon for an item versus just purchasing it on the spot....even if the savings is minimal. The best part is that I am the oldest of 4 and we are all the same way.